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Important Things Life Has Taught Me


10 Important Things Life Has Taught Me

1. If you brush a dogs teeth with real toothpaste you can remake the movie Cujo, complete with the foaming mouth and snarling. It sounds fun but in reality it’s just messy.


2. If you allow a 5 year old to make his own sandwich you will be cleaning peanut butter off of every available surface in your kitchen.


3. If you make it to the 28th of the month and celebrate having $1.36 left in your checking account, something major in your house will break.


4. If you wear pajamas and slippers to drop your kid off at school something unforeseen will happen to force you to take your kid inside the school.


5. If you spend an hour packing everything but the kitchen sink in your vehicle around your kids for a vacation someone will have to pee.


6. If you are waiting for a delivery, a phone call, or the pest control guy to show up, the doorbell or phone will only ring the minute you soap up your hair in the shower.


7. If you spend a month planning and buying supplies for a very specific character party for your kid they will change their mind 48 hours before said party is scheduled to occur.


8. If you force your husband to do laundry under extreme duress he will shrink your favorite sweater and turn it into doll clothes. Then he will laugh at your screams of horror.


9. If you invite 30+ family members to your house to celebrate a major holiday the power will go out in the middle of cooking the holiday dinner.


10. If you serve an abundance of alcoholic beverages at your holiday celebration someone is going to end up half naked and dancing on a table….and it’s usually the person you least expect….like grandma. 


Please don’t ask how I know all these things. I’d rather not talk about it or think about it ever again. Ever. *shudder*


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How To Survive The Holidays Without Killing Your Spouse

Now that’s a title that will grab your attention, yes? My alternate title was “5 Tips For Hiding A Body” but I really don’t want to end up on some government watchlist…again. So I took the post in a different direction. But I promise you, if my husband puts one more of my favorite sweaters into the dryer you will be seeing that above-mentioned post.


Do you find yourself fighting or arguing with your spouse or significant other more than usual during what is supposed to be the season for happiness, faith, and family? The holiday season seems to really bring out the snippy remarks, the eye rolls, and the long-suffering sighs. The holiday season used to be much easier, back in the days before we had kids and full schedules. Now our lives are a jumble of sporting events, practices, appointments, and programs. It’s much harder to shift the schedule to make room for more things and during the holidays there always seem to be more things. More things lead to stress and stress leads to arguments. 






1. Learn to say no. You don’t have to accept every invitation that you receive. I know it’s hard to disappoint people but saying yes to every invitation to parties, shows, or holiday events just leads to frustration and stress. Every year Matt and I are invited to multiple holiday shows, parties, and charity events. We have to pick and choose which ones we want to attend and we almost always make that determination based on the things our whole family will enjoy. We try to attend different types of things- the singing Christmas tree, the tree lighting festival, a childrens’ Christmas play, as well as some of the parties. 


2. Set a budget. This is the hardest part for us. Matt grew up in a family where Christmas morning opening gifts was just not a big deal. Their Christmas was more church focused and the excitement of Christmas morning was secondary. I grew up being surrounded by the Christmas spirit. My mom went all out for the holidays- decor, parties, traditions, gifts….she loves Christmas. We had large Christmas morning celebrations that created some of the best memories of my childhood. I desperately want to re-create those memories for my own kids. Working in the finance industry means Matt is extremely budget minded- that’s code for “cheap”. He considers anything more than one gift per child to be excessive because of his childhood. We have had many a fight about this over the years because I am not willing to compromise or concede on this issue. The best way around this fight for us is to set a firm budget for the holidays, then it’s up to me to find the best deals on the gifts.


3. Make your holiday shopping list together. This ties in with the whole budget thing. We try not to buy in excess for the holidays. We agreed long ago on 4 gifts per child to open on Christmas morning. They also receive a gift from my parents and my sisters family to open on Christmas day. That’s a total of 6 gifts each on Christmas day- which is more than enough, especially now that they are older and are asking for more expensive gifts. We see my in-laws for New Years most years and they receive more gifts from them. Matt and I sit down together in the fall and make a holiday gift list that includes every member of our family that we need to buy for that year. Matt appreciates having input and not being caught off guard when we sit down to wrap gifts together. 


4. Decide early about holiday plans. When we were first married we used to alternate the holidays with our families. One year we went to my parents for Thanksgiving and his parents for Christmas. The next year we would switch. After we started our own family we stopped traveling at the holidays. I wanted my kids to be in their own beds in their own house for Christmas. It’s the magic of Christmas morning and I wanted that for my own kids. The first few years were difficult with parents disappointed and upset that we were no longer traveling but it was important to me so Matt supported our new plan. Now we are 13 years into it and we have a great holiday routine. We host Thanksgiving at our home for both sides of the family. Everyone comes- parents, siblings, nephews…both sides of the family come together to celebrate at our home. I love it and wouldn’t have it any other way. For Christmas, my parents come down on Christmas Eve and spend the night with us to be here to celebrate Christmas morning with us. My in-laws travel to see Matt’s brothers for Christmas and we see them on New Year’s Day or the weekend after Christmas some years. 


5. Compromise graciously. There are always things that come up during the holiday season that have the potential to cause an argument with your spouse. An unexpected last minute party invitation from his boss or 2 events planned for the same night. Our solution? Decide who it is more important to and work from there. For example, a last minute invitation from his boss? That ranks up there at a 10 in importance for Matt- so I suck it up, paste on a smile, and make small talk with people I don’t know for a few hours. When we have 2 events on the same night- we decide based on which one means more to us. If the invitation for a charity event is a 10 in importance for me and the other invitation for an ugly sweater party is just a 7 for Matt then we go to the charity event. Now if we both think the parties are of equal importance we settle it the old fashioned way- rock, paper, scissors. Or we agree to attend separately (which rarely ever happens). 


6. Focus on family. We make a true effort to focus on our family during the holiday season. We set aside weekends specifically for our family- no outside obligations allowed. We stay in our jammies, make Christmas cookies, drink hot chocolate, and watch Christmas movies. When we decorate our Christmas tree we make it a fun family day with cookies and Christmas songs. Every night we read a Christmas themed story before bedtime. Those are the memories I want my kids to have of our family holiday when they are older and starting their own families.


There you have it. Those 6 tips are the reason Matt is still alive and I’m not in jail. The holidays have the potential to be the most stressful time of the year if you let it get out of hand. 

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5 Tips For A Budget Friendly Christmas

Christmas is a big deal in my house. It always has been- starting when I was a kid. My parents went all out for Christmas despite not having a whole lot of discretionary cash. They never went into debt to do Christmas because my mom was the master of stretching a penny into a dollar. I love Christmas- the whole season, not just the day. I love singing Christmas carols, seeing all the houses in our neighborhood decorated with bright lights, drinking hot cocoa in front of a twinkling Christmas tree while we watch National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation….I just love it all. 


But with 5 kids, Christmas gets expensive. Not to mention- 3 siblings, 3 spouses, 3  nephews, 2 sets of parents….that’s not even counting teachers, therapists, coaches. Christmas has the potential to be a budget buster in my house. We adopted a few guidelines to help us be able to have a fantastic Christmas and stay within our budget. I refuse to ever put Christmas on a credit card. I will not go into debt to provide Christmas presents. This means I need to plan and budget all year long, not just starting on December 1st.






1. Make your list and check it twice. I start my Christmas list on January 1st. Every time my kids finds something they really want, I add it to the list. As they lose interest in things through out the year, I cross those items off. When it gets down to around mid-October, I narrow the list down even further. I don’t finalize my lists until the hot toy catalogs come out and the kids browse through them with shiny eyes and circle things they might want. By the second week of November my lists are usually done.


2. Shop the pre-Black Friday sales. A lot of stores and amazon have some great sales in the weeks leading up to Black Friday. I don’t wait for Black Friday sales, mainly because I don’t do Black Friday. I shop online but I do not venture out into the stores to fight the hoarde of angry masses. Make sure you know which stores will price match and take advantage of that. If your kids are asking for really hot toys, take advantage of the free layaway at Toys R Us or Wal*Mart. 


3. Cut your gift list. In our family some years we all buy for the kids but not the adults. At Thanksgiving, the adults will all draw names to see who they will buy for that year. It’s just too expensive to buy for 8 kids plus all the adults. Not to mention it takes off a lot of stress. I just have to find that one perfect gift for one person instead of a perfect gift for each person. This year we are doing it a little differently. We’re buying gifts based on gender. I’m buying for my sister and my 2 sisters-in-law. Matt is buying for his 2 brothers and his brother-in-law. We always buy for our parents so that hasn’t changed. Work out a system with your extended family that works for all of you. 


4. Set your budget early and save all year. I have a separate savings account and every month I add a set amount to it. I always plan to have $1,000 by December to pay for Christmas. I rarely use it all and whatever is leftover gets transferred into our vacation account. I have the money transferred into the savings account automatically and since I never see it, I don’t miss it. Doing it this way makes sure the funds are there for Christmas and I don’t have to scramble to come up with the money at the last minute.


5. Be realistic about how many gifts your kids need. I have 5 kids. I cannot do 10 gifts per kid. I just can’t do it, and they don’t need that much. It’s just overkill. I want my kids to know the meaning of Christmas and I want them to know it is better to give than to receive. My kids get 4 presents each and then they always get a gift from my parents, my sister, my in-laws, and a joint gift from Matt’s brothers. So they end up with around 8 gifts each and truthfully even that is too much. I try to put a lot of thought into which gifts we get for the kids and make sure to pick things they will truly love.


As my kids get older their gift lists get more expensive. I think when the last one learns about Santa we will re-evaluate  how we do gifts and change up the system. This year Ty asked for a Samsung Tablet, an iPhone 5, an xBox One, a pair of Beats headphones, and a dirt bike. Clearly he thinks he was adopted into the Rockefeller family. Ha! Someone needs a dose of reality. 


How do you keep your Christmas gift list under budget?

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Happy Thanksgiving

Just a few funnies to brighten your Thanksgiving Day. 


 Thanksgiving this year will be all about that very special feeling of gratitude that we can now  finally sit and smirk


please do not touch the thanksgiving turkey inappropriately this year




Is that your pop-up timer or are you just glad to see me?






Happy turkey day







Thanksgiving Pictures


Happy Thanksgiving from my house to yours. Hope you have a wonderful day with your families. We have a house full of people and are anticipating a lot of half drunk overnight guests crashing at our house so I’ll be back this weekend to share pictures….some of which will quite probably involve inappropriate touching of the turkey. We are a fun bunch. Ha!



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Food Stories by Elena Scott
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Things I Love by Carol Nehls and Jessica Rose
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Patent Pending by Jordan Natyshen
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Tiny Horses are Everywhere by Thea Lux
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